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A spectacular drink with the girls!

Passionfruit Margarita

Smokey eyes for a seductive look.

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Adventures Beyond the Horizon

We all have those moments when childhood memories seem so long ago, and we desire to return to those care-free days. Now being a parent myself, I enjoy just sitting and watching my children play outside. They have no care in the world, but with so many adventures on the horizon. Sometimes, as adults, we forget to have our own adventures. Take a few moments each to to enjoy the smell of freshly cut grass, enjoy the warm sunshine radiating through the trees, or just sit back and sip a frothy cup of morning coffee instead of rushing out the door with it. These might not be the same "adventures" we had a children or even the ones we may dream about as adults (my big adventures include backpacking through Europe or swimming on a Coral Reef), but our daily small "adventures" will help us rejuvenate and begin to enjoy the simple and edifying moments of life. These moments can't ever be taken away from us, even through the daily grind and the chaos of life!

Keep Calm & Have Coffee

Knee-Popping

Charity Event

Two Guys Photography

Mother/Daughter Day

Book Event

Book Signing

Christmas Party

Work Luncheon

Quotes

Sevenly

Ground Floor Opportunities

Life is a whirlwind of opportunities. We enter into these "events" oftentimes not exactly knowing how we got to that point, or where it will lead us. As we look back to the original circumstances which led us to a specific place in our lives whether that is a relationship, marriage, college, a career or a friendship we can only be thankful for those unknown opportunities. A society that has become so fast-paced, even email appears slow to some of us, we no longer are able to value the virtue of patience and long, hard-working struggles. We are only take an idea, develop it, plan and expect it to become a success over-night, but in reality this is farther from the truth and I myself have unfortunately also become drawn into this backwards way of thinking at times. While brainstorming the other day about a few of our business ventures, I began to think about my floral design company and how only after 5 years have I been able to venture out to more clientele, my company's name is finally making a brand for itself and I feel I have hit a point of success. The funny thing about this company is that I never dreamed it would "take-off" overnight, I always had a realistic view that it was hard to break into any industry when you have no connections or backing, but I did it and have enjoyed the hard-work.

It is interesting however, that I am unable to take this philosophy or way of thinking into my other business ventures or aspects of life. I strive for personal success, but at times I don't feel it is moving fast enough. It is then that I must take a step back and re-examine myself and my motives. Am I becoming like the rest of society, or the rest of my generation, not wanting to wait? Truly, I am an impatient person which pretty much everyone can see from my choleric, A-Type personality, but that is no excuse for my constant drive to never let myself rest or to never accept the current position I am in. This past year has definitely been eye-opening for me as I have learned several of these lessons and work everyday to foster a bit more patience in my soul! As hard as that may be, I also don't expect this virtue to appear overnight or at an unrealistic rapid pace. This is just like everything else, it takes hard-work and time to develop, but believe me, it took me a long time to discover this within myself. The most important thing is that I have had to learn to be easier on myself. When I am too hard on myself and don't believe I am living up to my expectations or the expectations of those around me, I then become unsatisfied. This truly a fault of my own.

So, the lesson to be learned is to live life with a hard-working purpose, but to start with the ground floor opportunities. Because even though we never know their worth or the outcome of such circumstances, they are more beneficial in our lives than all the goals we set for ourselves but never accomplish. Or we become frustrated because they are not accomplished in the way we imagined. The funny thing is that when these goals are cultivated, in the way of divine providence, rather than to our own plan, it is actually more successful than we could have ever imagined. On the contrary, when we push something too hard and it is not the right timing, the sky falls, we feel like failures and we are forced to wait a bit longer for another ground floor opportunity.



Here are a few of the ground floor opportunities in our lives whether individual or as business partners:

The release of our first book, Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life, in April 2013.

The start-up of DMH Custom Floral Designs in January 2008.

The development of Aircut.

The start-up of our company, Lady Lux Events, in 2012.

Back In the Swing of Things! Revolt Now Fitness

It is finally time to get back in the swing of things with my eating healthy and workout routine. It has been a long few months off, as I dealt with summer activities, designing wedding flowers for fabulous brides and the release of our new book, Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life with book events and promotions. However, there are no excuses now! I have re-started the Revolt Now Fitness Routine and Meal Plan, with a few tweaks. Things will be a bit easier now that my oldest is in school in the mornings so that will give me a chance to do the 20 minutes workout and get my morning run in, which I'm enjoying a bit more everyday!

I am taking this week as the detox week so it's packed full of brussel sprouts, spinach, lots of chicken, sweet potatoes, boiled eggs and bananas. It's a great plan as it keeps me full, detoxes me from the loads of sugar I eat and crave on a regular basis and pushes me to workout each day (with a few days of rest) and I get to focus on different areas to stay in shape. It's great because the levels of the program can be adjusted for workout capacity, bodily limitations and it's short enough to help with time restraints a lot of us have. Check out the program here!

Two Day Promotion for Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life! Free Offer from September 3rd - September 4th

We have a two day promotion starting on Labor Day, Tuesday, September 3rd through Wednesday, September 4th.  Order a FREE copy of Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life for Kindle!  

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The Art of Successful Communication

Written By: Danielle Silva Heckenkamp

The Art of Communication - A little bit of common sense, PLEASE!

Our world has become so absorbed with technology, and ourselves, that oftentimes we fail to show concern and generosity towards others.  Even though the majority of people have access to the internet 24/7, they still fail to have any sort of manners.  Yes, there are certain guidelines that should be followed for the internet, the phone and text messaging...huh...who would've guess?!?

1. Sending text messages to your girlfriend/boyfriend's parents is not a good idea.  Pick up the phone and make a call if you need to contact her/him.

2.  If someone sends you an email, whether business or personal, respond immediately!  Even if you need to check something or it may take some time to find out information, never leave the email unanswered.  Even a short reply of, "let me get back to you about that" or "I will check my calendar and let you know".

3.  Posting your negative personal information on social media outlets is not always for your benefit.  It may actually be detrimental if employers see that, because believe me, you will be Google Searched.

4.  Return all phone calls promptly.  This means return the call within a day.  Don't wait a week to return a phone call whether it's for personal or business reasons.

5. Keep the ringtone of your phone professional and at a moderate level.

For more tips on internet manners, purchase our book - 
Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life here!

Immediate Press Release

Contact Information: Danielle Marie Heckenkamp

414-460-3567

www.provocativemanners.blogspot.com
daniellemarieandkatrina@yahoo.com

 

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life

~ Modern manners with a saucy twist~

Do you remember a time when men were men and women were women  A time when doors were held, respectful tips were given to pleasant waiters and thank you letters were anticipated. What has become of these times? Are these manners on the brink of extinction? What if etiquette and manners were made to be fun?  Not fun, but saucy. Not saucy, but provocative. 

Milwaukee, Wisconsin – July, 2013 – Are you ready to enter the Fabulous World of Provocative Manners? A world where women feel glamorous and sophisticated; a place where masculinity is never found wanting? This Fabulous World found only in Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life touches upon those nitty-gritty everyday manners and common sense. Danielle Marie and Katrina co-authored Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life with the desire to show that manners are not stiff, old-fashioned principles, but that these very principles can be modernized to fit our everyday lives through common sense. With a variety of topics from business manners, dating, fashion and beauty, Provocative Manners is the “go-to” book for quick tips of advice and inspiration with a saucy twist. Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life can be purchased on-line at most large book retailers, such as Barnes & Noble, Amazon, etc. 

Everyone searches to find the “glamorous” life. A life different from our own, but the goal in writing Provocative Manners was not to dream about a different life, but to love our own “glamorous” lives through the “Fabulous World of Provocative Manners” for both men and women alike. Being two young business women, who have played the game, observed the rules and conquered relationships (friend and foe), Danielle Marie and Katrina have the knowledge and humor to address these every day issues found in today’s society.

Enter into the “Fabulous World of Provocative Manners” with a variety of humorous twists and saucy details about simple every day manners and common sense. You won’t want to put this book down. The dedicated readers of Provocative Manners have a variety of resources to follow on a daily basis: Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Blogspot, Google+ and Pinterest. The content, humor and sauciness are never lacking in the “Fabulous World of Provocative Manners”.

Book Event ~

Date & Time: Friday, July 19, 2013 from 5:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m.

Location: Merle Norman Cosmetics, Brookfield Square Mall, Brookfield, Wisconsin

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Mother's Day Week Giveaway! A Provocative Manner's Book and Much More!

This week we would like to give a shout-out to all mothers!  A big thank you to our own moms for everything they have ever done or will do for us, to thank them for helping us become a wonderful people we are today.  In honor of Mother's Day, we will be giving away a few fabulous gifts!  We would love to have one lucky reader win our book and extra goodies! These treats are perfect to celebrate the warm spring weather and fashions.

To enter the giveaway, you must write a comment below along with your email address.  Tell us what your biggest pet peeves in regards to manners and common sense.  The winner will be randomly selected and will be announced on Monday morning at 10:00 a.m. central.  This giveaway is open to international residents.

The Gift Box includes

• A signed copy of our book, Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life
• Three mini pastel nail polishes by BORGHESE
• A hand-made pink and green stone necklace by, Strings of Summer
• Summer scarf from New York & Co., made of 100% silk
• Three scented "wine glass" candles by Chesapeake Bay Candle

Did You Forget to RSVP?

Over the weekend, we had several parties and events to attend.  Yes, it was one of those busy weekends, where sitting down and sleep almost seem nonexistent!  But it was worth it, spending time with friends and family!  Anyhow, during one of the events I was speaking with a few people about our new book, Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life, and how one of our biggest pet peeves is the lack of guests responding to an invitation.

Why is it so difficult to respond yes or no to an event?  Is is a bit of insecurity?  Maybe it's too difficult for someone to make a commitment.  Or is it a bit of laziness?  Wait, this shouldn't be an excuse, especially if it has prepaid postage.  Or are we just that inconsiderate of others?  We think only ourselves and our schedules.  Unfortunately, not many people show respect. 

Remember, it is crucial that you respond, "yes" or "no" to an event!  If you are unsure whether you can attend, then contact the host/hostess and let them know you are a "maybe", believe me, they will appreciate this!  It's difficult planning the food, drinks, decor and location when the guest count is difficult to determine.

Credit: Solis Winery

Sauce of Life Tip:

Respond to a Party ASAP!  If you are waiting to find out whether the date works for you, write the deadline on the calendar so you respond promptly to the invitation.  Don't leave your host/hostess in the lurch!

Credit: FrenchWeddingResponse

Book Launch ~ Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life

We have an exciting announcement!  After two years of writing, re-writing, editing, researching and writing to publishers and agents, we have officially published our first book ~ Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life!  It can be purchased here with the kindle version available soon!

Writing this book has been the most amazing, scary and frustrating, but well worth it experience!  We are so excited to share this book which is so dear to our heart!  Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life has bits of everyday common sense, manners and of course, fashion!  Enjoy reading chapters on Business Manners, Dating, Confidence, Fashion Faux Pas, Accessorizing to the Max, Sauciness in Everyday Life and of course getting down to the Nitty Gritty!

Via: iPersonaFi

(The fabulous company that designed our logo!)

Provocative Manners: The Sauce of Life