Why Is Everything So Complicated?

As technology advances, life should get simpler, right?  Wrong!  The more we are "tuned-in" to technology, the more people tend to daydream!  With all that daydreaming, let's try to find a bit of happiness.  So what needs to change?  Are our lives too complicated?

The Happy Chart

O.K., you have heard us over and over again say that common sense is lacking!  Where has it gone?  Why does everything have to be so difficult now?  Are you still wondering what we are talking about?  Well, here is a short list of simple things that have become complicated! 

1. Replying to an invitation.  Why is it so difficult for an invited guest to respond, yes or no, for an event?  Especially since most invitations are electronic, just a click of the mouse!

2. Why are pictures no longer snapped for memories, but present an opportunity for a "photo-op"?  Are you dreaming a talent agent will discover you on Facebook or YouTube?  That's very unlikely.  Enjoy the moment.  Life isn't about becoming famous or wealthy, it's about faith, family and friends. 


3. Why is it so difficult to smile?  The majority of human beings walk around with a crabby face all the time!  Do you have nothing to be thankful for, like the roof over your head, the shoes on your feet and the lover in your bed?  (Thanks to Darius Rucker!)

4.  Returning phone calls should be a priority.  This seems to be off the charts impossible for some people!  Don't respond to a voice message with a text!  Find time to get on the phone and make a quick call.  Don't worry, it won't be the end of the world if you actually have to talk to the person.

5. Saying please and thank you is definitely on this list!  The majority of people never say please or thank you.  Don't expect others to be their best if you can't be on the top of your game everyday!

The Magic Words

Slip of the Tongue? Or Slight of the Hand?

Written By: Ooh La La (Danielle Marie)

Time to focus on the basics, yet again! 

Is it really that difficult to say "Please" and "Thank you"? 

Why are we too impatient to hold the door for the person behind us?

Word to the wise, say "Please" and "Thank You"!  This should have been ingrained in our minds at a very young age.  It might be difficult for a 3 year old to remember these words, but there is no excuse for a 13 year old, a 23 year old, or a 33 year old to have a "slip of the tongue"...  Get the point?!? 

Do you feel vulnerable by showing gratitude?  Guessing not, it's probably pride!  Get over yourself!

Are you just plain lazy? This is more realistic! Get over yourself!

Exhibiting gratitude, even in the smallest situation (i.e. the bank teller, the store clerk, your significant other) puts you in a position of control.  Acts of kindness will catch most people unaware, and oftentimes leave them...speechless...



Here's the winner!  Have you ever walked towards a building and the person in front of you lets go of the door, just as you are about to enter.  It almost seems intentional, as that door shuts in your face.  Unfortunately, this happens all too often.  But is it intentional?

What's the reason?  Well, most people are just too caught up in themselves.  Instead of being self-absorbed, try to remember others around you and be assistance to them.  Holding the door for a stranger will have an amazing impact, infinite signs of gratitude.  So instead of letting that door shut immediately behind you, remember to think of others and produce a "slight of the hand" trick by holding the door for a stranger.  What a welcoming surprise!