Written By: Ooh La La (Danielle Marie)
"When in Rome, do as the Romans do."
Well, this renown saying most definitely pertains to those basic everyday NITTY GRITTY MANNERS! Forget about yourself, forget about your personal stubborness and leave that "giv'me giv'me" personality home; you will never get far in life with that philosophy. Instead, recognize your surroundings, follow the appropriate manners as to your situation and most of all, think of others!
Here's an example...
In France, bread plates are not used at the dinner table. Instead, buttered bread is placed on the table next to the main plate. While in America, bread plates are used. You don't want to stick out like a sore thumb, so here the lesson is...be flexible with customs and traditions. You may not be invited back to dinner if you insist on openly defying the host!
Easier said than done, right? It doesn't have to be! Use this same philosophy when having dinner at a friend's house or eating at a unique restaurant. It's ok to follow other customs, everything is not about you. This is not the time to force your personal opinions on others. "When in Rome...or in France...or in Japan...or in the United States." Stop being STUBBORN! Adjust to your surroundings, relax, be congenial and you might make some amazing friendships while having the time of your life!
Do you remember a time when men were men and women were women? A time when doors were held, respectful tips were given to pleasant waiters and thank you letters were anticipated. What has become of these times? Are these manners on the brink of extinction? According to our society, few people follow rules with regards to manners. Let's dish out the common-sense! ~Danielle Marie and Katrina ~
Wednesday, March 28, 2012
Friday, February 24, 2012
Be a Bridesmaid and Get Over Yourself! You're Not the Bride!
Written By: Ooh La La (Danielle Marie)
Every bride has those friends they regret asking to stand up in the wedding. Why must there always be a bridesmaid who finds issue with the dress style or color or length or fit? Usually there is always one bridesmaid in a bunch who complains about the cost of everything. And last, but not least, we have those bridesmaids who don't want to help in anyway but to make their appearance the day of the wedding! Here's some simple advice for those of you out there who may fall into one of these categories...GET OVER YOURSELF!
Stop making it difficult for the bride, it's her special day and let her enjoy the planning of her wedding. It's stressful enough without your complaints.
If you don't love the bridesmaid dress or you are being overly self-conscious, STOP, and keep your criticisms to yourself. Let's be real, will you ever really wear that dress again? And how often do you plan on looking at those pictures? It's highly unlikely they will be hanging them next to your own wedding pictures.
Remember, that when you agree to stand up in a wedding, you need to have some money saved for dresses, shoes, jewelry, hair, engagement party costs, bridal shower costs, bachelorette party costs, gifts and any other random items the bride wishes for you to purchase. Let's be realistic, you need about $500. If you can't afford it, just decline the honor. The bride won't be upset, she's planning a wedding is well aware of costs. She would rather know the truth and not have you stand up than listen to your monetary complaints for a year.
Bridesmaids are not only asked to stand up as sign of favoritism and love but also to help with the numerous preparations. If you can't help the maid of honor plan the engagement party, bridal shower, bachelorette party and assist the bride with preparations and clean up the day of the wedding, then maybe you should rethink being a bridesmaid. This isn't your day to just show-up and enjoy, it's the bride and groom's day to relax. So, GET OVER YOURSELF!
Here's a tip: If the bride is stressed, then the groom is stressed, so you better pick up the pieces, fast!
Remember you will eventually have your own special day, you're not the bride this time! Be a good friend and try not to think of your needs but those of the bride and groom and it will make the planning process and wedding day much more enjoyable for all!
Courtesy of Andrew Schliesman Photography
Every bride has those friends they regret asking to stand up in the wedding. Why must there always be a bridesmaid who finds issue with the dress style or color or length or fit? Usually there is always one bridesmaid in a bunch who complains about the cost of everything. And last, but not least, we have those bridesmaids who don't want to help in anyway but to make their appearance the day of the wedding! Here's some simple advice for those of you out there who may fall into one of these categories...GET OVER YOURSELF!
Stop making it difficult for the bride, it's her special day and let her enjoy the planning of her wedding. It's stressful enough without your complaints.
If you don't love the bridesmaid dress or you are being overly self-conscious, STOP, and keep your criticisms to yourself. Let's be real, will you ever really wear that dress again? And how often do you plan on looking at those pictures? It's highly unlikely they will be hanging them next to your own wedding pictures.
Remember, that when you agree to stand up in a wedding, you need to have some money saved for dresses, shoes, jewelry, hair, engagement party costs, bridal shower costs, bachelorette party costs, gifts and any other random items the bride wishes for you to purchase. Let's be realistic, you need about $500. If you can't afford it, just decline the honor. The bride won't be upset, she's planning a wedding is well aware of costs. She would rather know the truth and not have you stand up than listen to your monetary complaints for a year.
Bridesmaids are not only asked to stand up as sign of favoritism and love but also to help with the numerous preparations. If you can't help the maid of honor plan the engagement party, bridal shower, bachelorette party and assist the bride with preparations and clean up the day of the wedding, then maybe you should rethink being a bridesmaid. This isn't your day to just show-up and enjoy, it's the bride and groom's day to relax. So, GET OVER YOURSELF!
Here's a tip: If the bride is stressed, then the groom is stressed, so you better pick up the pieces, fast!
Remember you will eventually have your own special day, you're not the bride this time! Be a good friend and try not to think of your needs but those of the bride and groom and it will make the planning process and wedding day much more enjoyable for all!
Courtesy of Andrew Schliesman PhotographyMonday, February 20, 2012
The Art to the Smell of Cheese
Written By: Ooh La La (Danielle Marie)
Ever wonder how to cut a slice of cheese?
Don't kid yourself, it is an art.
We've all been to those wine tastings with platters of delicious cheeses. Where to start? Sometimes they are pre-sliced, which if not eaten right away will dry out and harden, but the best cheeses are those left out on the platter for two hours before serving and not pre-sliced. Look for these at a gourmet cheese shop, they are usually not available at your local chain grocery store.
Here's a specialty store that carries a wide variety of excellent cheeses!
http://www.sendiksfinefoods.com
Now, how should you properly cut a slice of cheese?
Try not to mix knives, there should be one knife for each variety of cheese.
Never cut the "nose" off the cheese. This is the softest part and the best part! So if the cheese brick is a wedge, do not cut off the thinnest corner....THE NOSE! Slice along the length of the cheese, this way you get a little nose while leaving some to share with others.
Want to try the "King of Cheeses"?
http://www.cheese.com/Description.asp?Name=Roquefort
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Give Some Extra Lovin' on Valentine's Day!
Written By: Va Va Voom (Katrina)
It's Valentine's Day! This day has mixed emotions for people all over the world! If you're a man you come up with the excuse that Hallmark created this holiday and too much pressure is put on you! And you're right, a lot of pressure is on you, you better make this a very memorable day! Here's an easy trick, watch any chick flick and repeat!!!
For women on Valentine's Day, it can be a day of fancy, frustration, anxiety, wonder, happiness, nervousness, excitement or disappointment. More importantly it is a day of chocolate! Forget love ladies, all we need is chocolate, am I right?
"After about 20 years of marriage, I'm finally starting to scratch the surface of what women want. And I think the answer lies somewhere between conversation and chocolate." Mel Gibson
Eating chocolate can have significant influences on mood, generally leading to an increase in pleasant feelings and a reduction in tension. – Peter Rogers, Ph.D., Institute of Food Research
"Let's face it, a nice creamy chocolate cake does a lot for a lot of people; it does for me." Audrey Hepburn
Now seriously, Valentine's Day is a day to remember that you are loved, whether it's your spouse, your friends or your family, Valentine's Day is the day for extra lovin' (apply where needed hehe).
So remember to love whole heartily and if you do, you will receive it back times ten!
“When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain.” Mark Twain
"After about 20 years of marriage, I'm finally starting to scratch the surface of what women want. And I think the answer lies somewhere between conversation and chocolate." Mel Gibson
Eating chocolate can have significant influences on mood, generally leading to an increase in pleasant feelings and a reduction in tension. – Peter Rogers, Ph.D., Institute of Food Research
"Let's face it, a nice creamy chocolate cake does a lot for a lot of people; it does for me." Audrey Hepburn
Now seriously, Valentine's Day is a day to remember that you are loved, whether it's your spouse, your friends or your family, Valentine's Day is the day for extra lovin' (apply where needed hehe).
So remember to love whole heartily and if you do, you will receive it back times ten!
“When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain.” Mark Twain
“Because when we love, we always strive to become better than we are.” Paulo Coelho in The Alchemist
“A man loses his sense of direction after four drinks; A woman loses hers after four kisses.” H.L. Mencken
“A kiss can be a comma, a question mark or an exclamation point. That's basic spelling that every woman ought to know.” Mistinguette
“Love is like a river, always changing, but always finding you again somewhere down the road.”
Kelly Elaine
“Love is like a river, always changing, but always finding you again somewhere down the road.”
Kelly Elaine
“One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: that word is love.”
Sophocles
Sophocles
And finally.... Provocative Manners dares you to do some extra lovin' today! We dare you to hug, kiss, or say I love you to someone you have never said it too! Good luck and good lovin!
Sunday, February 12, 2012
Make a Commitment! Répondez S'il Vous Plaît
Written By: Ooh La La (Danielle Marie)
Why is it so diffcult for guests to R.S.V.P. to a party? Is it lack of social manners, laziness, honest forgetfulness or just a failure to commit?
It seems that everyone wants to be invited, and will be personally offended if not, but the people who demand an invitation are those less likely to respond with a reply. They are always looking for the next best party or event, so you wait and wait, and you never receive an R.S.V.P. These people may never change, so it's up to you, do you want to really want to invite them?
Laziness....enough said... It's extremely rude if you don't respond to an invitation. You say, you don't care? Well expect to be in the same situation at your next party when you receive no replies because your guests are too lazy. Good luck trying to plan your food and drink menu!
If you are one of those people who honestly forget to R.S.V.P., then make it a priority to check your schedule and respond as soon as possible. Don't put it on the top of a pile of papers in your kitchen; you will never remember it's there, until it's too late! Hang it on the refrigerator, that way you won't remember to respond.
Here's the lesson, pick up your phone, we all have one...and make the call! Call whether you can or cannot make the event. Don't lack this basic social manner, don't be lazy, don't be forgetful and don't fail to commit! Otherwise you may not be invited to their next party and word spreads quickly, so you may be missing out some great events!
Are you looking for cute party invitations? Check out http://www.partypieces.com/
Why is it so diffcult for guests to R.S.V.P. to a party? Is it lack of social manners, laziness, honest forgetfulness or just a failure to commit?
It seems that everyone wants to be invited, and will be personally offended if not, but the people who demand an invitation are those less likely to respond with a reply. They are always looking for the next best party or event, so you wait and wait, and you never receive an R.S.V.P. These people may never change, so it's up to you, do you want to really want to invite them?
Laziness....enough said... It's extremely rude if you don't respond to an invitation. You say, you don't care? Well expect to be in the same situation at your next party when you receive no replies because your guests are too lazy. Good luck trying to plan your food and drink menu!
If you are one of those people who honestly forget to R.S.V.P., then make it a priority to check your schedule and respond as soon as possible. Don't put it on the top of a pile of papers in your kitchen; you will never remember it's there, until it's too late! Hang it on the refrigerator, that way you won't remember to respond.
Here's the lesson, pick up your phone, we all have one...and make the call! Call whether you can or cannot make the event. Don't lack this basic social manner, don't be lazy, don't be forgetful and don't fail to commit! Otherwise you may not be invited to their next party and word spreads quickly, so you may be missing out some great events!
Are you looking for cute party invitations? Check out http://www.partypieces.com/
Photo from partypieces.com
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